Touch yourself to get yourself feeling horny before you start and then: Exercise: 1) put your two fingers into your pussy with the points of your index and middle fingers curved up pushing toward your clit on the skin that feels a little rougher in that area; 2) from inside, where the rougher skin is, rub back and forth pressing pretty hard on that rougher skin part isolating and remembering where it feels good; 3] after you've found that area, get a realistic vibrator and turn it on and then insert it into your pussy and push it in and out going deeper and deeper either right or left of the cervix - find the side that feels best - you can alternate - you should be doing yourself pretty hard - not slowly; 4) periodically lick the fingers of your other hand and massage your clit; 5) as you feel more and more horny and getting toward orgasm, remove the vibrator and lick the fingers of one hand and begin rubbing the clit harder and constantly; 6) while rubbing the clit, put two fingers back in your pussy on that rougher skin you identified earlier, rub back and forth on that area pushing hard and moving fast while your are massaging your clit with the fingers on your other hand. Keep your mind focused on the feeling. Move fast and hard inside until you orgasm. If you're having trouble, do your kegel exercises regularly and remember to focus on orgasm and how good it feels removing other thoughts from your mind. Practice until cum begins squirting when you orgasm. Sometimes, it helps to give someone head while you're doing the exercise.