No matter how old you are, you can always learn a thing or two when it comes to sex. More specifically, oral sex.

1: Make Sure She’s Comfortable and Relaxed: Women want to feel comfortable, secure and sexy. When you can make her feel those things in your presence, she’ll be able to cum a hell of a lot quicker.

The environment you’re in has a huge impact on whether she will be able to fully relax and let go. If you’re at her place, then all you need to do is be gentle and caring because the surroundings are familiar.

If however, you’re in your home, then you need to work a little more to make her feel happy and safe. Get the mood lighting right, check the temperature of the room is neutral and your bed sheets should be clean. … can be a great relaxant and maybe even a few candles would be a nice touch (girls love candles).

Music is POWERFUL also, so use it to your advantage. Find some chill-out music and let it run in the background to give a relaxed vibe in the room.

Everything above is basic I know, but you’d be shocked at just how many men have problems keeping their home inviting to women.

2: Turn Her On, Build Up The Tension: Women are like dials, not switches. You need to turn them on and gradually let the sexual tension build until she’s super-horny and her vagina is naturally lubricated. So before you can even go down on her, turn her on first!

There are several ways to turn a girl on which I won’t go into detail here. But some general tips would be; kiss her neck, grab her bum, slowly undress her, suck on her nipples and rub her pussy whilst her knickers are still on.

Foreplay might seem like a chore, but I can assure you, the better you get at foreplay, the easier it will be to get her to cum from oral.

3: Suck, Lick, Rub, Blow: Never start with the clit, end with it! This is a mistake a lot of guys make.

Begin slowly kissing and licking the labia minora (inner lips) for a minute or so. She should be groaning, wriggling and grabbing your hair. Listen to her body if she’s not telling you what she wants verbally (which most women won’t).

Massage and kiss her inner thighs too, this area is a great erogenous zone. Use your hands to pull apart the vagina lips, revealing the clit. You can do this with one hand using your thumb and forefinger, or you can use two thumbs.

Stop near her clitoris and breathe slowly, so she can feel your warm breath. This will build her anticipation.

After a few minutes, start working on the clit. Softly kiss her clitoris, lick it gently and suck it, cupping her clit with your mouth, creating a suction that isolates your tongue in one location. Now things are in full swing and she should be on her way to orgasming.

4: Don’t you Dare Stop, Dammit: There will be two types of communication from your girl during oral sex. Verbal and nonverbal. However non-verbal will be the most prominent.

When she squirms, bites her lip, moans, groans, grabs your head, moves her hips, clutches the bedsheets, says things like “oh yes baby”, that means you keep doing what you’re doing and DO NOT STOP. It’s all about building momentum, keeping a good rythm and staying consistent until she climaxes.

So, stay at the same speed. You don’t need to go super fast or slow, just keep the same pace until she cums. If you change things up, she’ll find it harder to reach a full orgasm.

5: Use a finger (or two): The mouth isn’t your only tool. You should use a finger, heck, use two fingers. Whilst your mouth is on her clit, insert your index finger and slowly slide it into her vagina, use the backwards stroking method to stimulate her g-spot. As if you’re telling her to “come here” motioning with your finger, while inside her.

See what’s happening here? You’re stimulating her clit and her g-spot like some sort of cunnilingus mouth wizard. She will be gasping for air at this point because it feels so freakin good. Change direction with your fingers and instead of stroking towards you, push downwards so you’re applying pressure to the base of her spine, close to her anus. This motion emulates sex and should be performed while you still have her clit in your mouth, sucking on it like a savage.

So that’s how to eat out pussy like a pro. If you practice this often enough, you should be able to make a girl orgasm within 15 minutes or less.