I get it...these sites just rush you thru the doors.you get a buncha lookie loos. ....several messages to get you thinkin' ...say I might meet someone here..then you respond...to empty air...whatta gyp. ..there are some nice profiles i thought soulda be taken seriously. ..see I don't want a wife, had one...... epic fail.i would notion the idea sex thu friedship....no strings..kick it together...go out into the world briefly..retreat to a sanctuary enjoy each other...then keep viably close thru ..say emails ..texting whatever works