1. A good man will complement you sincerely.

   You see, a good man who's besotted with you will find you

   incredibly attractive. He may even feel embarrassed that

   he finds you more attractive than his favorite celebrity

   star. He knows that you're just an ordinary girl - he

   knows that to his friends you're just another girl out of

   many girls - but in his eyes you just glow. It doesn't

   have to do with your cosmetics. It doesn't have to do with

   your hairstyle or clothes.

It has to do with you.

And if a man "negs" you - e.g., he makes fun of your looks

- he's a player. Just read Neil Strauss' The Game for

proof of the tricks men play on women to poke holes in

their self-esteem.

2. A good man with want to take care of a you. A man who wants a future with a woman dreams of providing

   for her. Even though he may not be the wealthiest man on

   the planet, he loves the little things he can do for the

   one he loves. He loves being of service to her. He wants

   to support her in her dreams in whatever way he can.

3. A good man will try his best. Because he doesn't want to lose a good woman ever.

   We're not all perfect. We make mistakes, we say things

   that hurt our partner, and we do stupid things that we

   later regret.

But a man who wants to make the relationship work will put

in the effort.

It may not be easy for him. He may feel like he's outside

of his comfort zone. But he WILL try his best. He'll do

things that he hopes will make you happy. He'll do what he

feels is best for the both of you.

Now, when I say that he will try his best, I don't mean

that his best will always be enough. Nor do I mean that

his best will be identical to what you think is best.

But a good man puts in the effort. Regardless of whether

his efforts succeed or fail, he tries.