What does it take to find someone special who is non judge mental, by that I mean doesn't look at the books cover but looks at things as a whole, and can see there is more to offer than what the books cover is showing. Life is short live as long as you can because you never know when your time is up, and when it does come up and you think about the things, people, and much more that you wanted to do, well they gone. When you find that someone you think is right for you hold on to them and work at keeping them no matter what their faults might be, if you truly care for them stick with them. I know first hand been tossed around like trash all my life and well I'm tired of it, just want to be me and have someone except me for being that way and truly care about me and loves me for what I am and who I am period. Here's one thing I don't understand is this, your on here looking for sex, maybe a possible match even for life. Then give a guy or woman a chance and meet up in public, if you feel okay with each other then see if they want to take things slow, if not then he or she doesn't want to do that then leave asap. Don't play games be up front with each other and who knows they might be the one you want for the rest of your life. You only live once and remember your human you can and do make mistakes.