GinaCMes blogg 

I have met so many single men who are fathers recently ...fathers for whatever reason ... lol. Formerly married ...bad choices ... the condom broke. I have heard them all and more than I will share. BUT ... a kid is a big changer. I know it. I get it.

Most men try to hide the fact that they are dads. Why????

To me, a man who is a dad is virile ... strong and important. His kid(s) is vitale ... a growing human soul ... beautiful.

Now, I know my perspective may be tweaked by age and experience ... HOWEVER ...I think that anyone who can stand up for their convitions is … and rare. Also, from my perspective, getting involved with any man, I feel I should know the truth. In truth ... to tell me your a dad ... a decent dad... grants you points with me.

Having a kid or several ... this, in and of itself, doesn't mean the booty call is off. It only means there a few obstacles and challenges and good girl would meet to be with you.Some of us will understand and be there no matter what.

So, don't be shy, you single dads out there. (If you are a married dad though ... um ... please just go do your wife. She will appreciate your attention.) Life is big and accommodates. Be honest and life will deliver.

All the best,

~g.