As of this writing, I've chatted with about eight women and six of them have turned out to be models trying to get me to sign up for other sites. When I decline, they all get mad in exactly the same way -- it's like they are reading from a script (which I am sure they are). That's not what I joined FB for.

I am here to hopefully meet local women who genuinely want to meet people.

As far as the model's offers go, I will always say no. Please don't get offended. It is not personal. (I'm not choosing someone else over you.)

My reasons are simple:

1. Not why I am here

2. I'm already paying $30/month for FB

3. Cyber Security: I've been the victim of identity theft in the past. As a result, I do not give out personal info (including credit card #) on ANY site I did not choose on my own.

3 is a rule that will not be broken . Ever.

So if you are a model for FB or any other site: I understand that you are trying to earn a living. I hope you do well. And i would be happy to chat with you. But please don't waste your time or mine by sending me friend requests if all you are going to do is try to sell me something.

Respectfully yours...

In the early 90s, I started exploring the bondage/Domination scene in DC. I learned a lot. I call myself a Sensualist Dom, not into inflicting pain or humiliation. There is a difference, though, between pain and "intense stimulation". I'm ok with the latter. My focus is almost all on your arousal.

Part of the reason I enjoy the dom/sub thing is that I get to push your limits. There's nothing I like better than that "oh wow" I get from you after something new or different. But the truth is, I am just a big teddy bear that loves women and their orgasms.

I especially like women who are strong, independent, with lots of responsibilities by day, but who would like to give up control when it comes to sex and their sexual explorations. Any experience level, any age is fine.

Real and relatively local only, please.