Blog di lagordamasfea

How prepared couples are to share

their sexual interests varies a great

deal.

The use of erotica and pornography is an issue which provokes great

controversy.

Some people have ethical or moral

objections to pornography, objections to some types of pornography or only find it acceptable when associated

with couple arousal.

Nevertheless, it is now so widespread and available that, for some

individuals,

its use has become as routine as a

nightcap in providing a way to relax

and unwind.

An orgasm stabilises the body,

returning it to a calm state.

It is understandable, then,

to use sex to relax at times when you are jangling with stress.

Internet porn can provide a quick and easy way to help you achieve that.

Unfortunately, however, it can become a problem if it starts to be the

only way you can become aroused or deal with stress, or if you feel you will be stressed if you don’t use it.

Relate counsellors are increasingly

seeing problems with relationships

and sexual functioning that are

associated with the use of

internet porn.

This isn’t about having a healthy

sexual appetite or multiple partners

but about a compulsion to

keep returning to the activity

which is causing them problems.

This can happen surprisingly quickly, because internet use can

actually change the brain.