This is an extremely personal, deep connection for my husband and I. It takes our cuddles to a nearly spiritual release. For us, it is a primal nurturing that fulfills me as a wife. Sure, any woman can cook, clean, etc, but it is our dedication to providing each other with something they cannot get elsewhere that makes this such a special part of our marriage.

It is also an extremely empowering thing as a woman. I consider myself a femanist....I have no higher calling that to feed … and now my husband at my breast. Any man pr woman can climb the corporate ladder, care for kids, fuck their brains out....this is something that only woman has been given the power to do. It is an incredible experience to feel that life giving fluid pouring from my nipples every time anyone sucks on my breasts.

I do not consider myself a hucow....and the erotica that I've seen tends to skew ANR into that realm. For us its more an extension of cuddling. There is no degredation of wearing a cowbell, going around on all 4s....just laying in bed, usually facing each other. We often fall asleep that way, or I'll wake … the night and he's latched on again.

Although he can bring me to orgasm with just breast play, most of the time, it is not nearly so erotic. The goal is for deep closeness, not orgasms.

If you look for video of babies latching on to mom's breast, the basics are the same. However, your partner will not "try to get as much of the areola in his/her mouth as possible...just enough for comfortable suction. His tongue will be under and around your nipple, and he will mostly just be swallowing (that will provide the mechanics of nursing, whether there's something to swallow or not.)

I have relactated after many years (I've got "babies" in college) The key to bringing milk in is frequent and dedicated nursing sessions....I'd suggest 4 times a day, about 15-20 minutes on each side every time. You may choose to go around between sessions with bare breasts to help prevent sore nipples, or if that is not possible, get some gel breast pads-in the baby nursing section of … stores-to wear in your bra. Get lots of extra fluid. I do not recommend getting medication/shots or other chemicals to "help your milk come in" most of them don't work well, and the hormones that would be most effective have dangerous side effects. You may want to get "Mothers Milk Tea" from Traditional Medicinals....available in most regular grocery stores and health food stores.

And the benefits of consuming breastmilk go far beyond slaking a thirst or even the healthy diet aspect. Breastmilk contains active antibodies to whatever bugs I have been exposed to, it helps heal ulcers, soothe sore throats, settle indigestion, ease constipation and diarrhea. And, the longer my hormones are active in producing milk the lower my risk of breast cancer.