Before I got on this website as a paid member I was getting message after message from up to 45 girls and some of them with four or five messages sent to me. But as soon as I paid and got on here all the sudden it's silent and crickets are chirping. Now is this going to be automated ice breaker emails type of deal that they didn't write, or is something else going on like something being wrong with me and then my heart or ugly? I don't get this and nobody's responded it wrote me