I am trying to figure this site out!  How in hell is a guy supposed to message a babe?  Only some profiles have a box to message, and that type of message is there for everyone on the site to see!  HOW do you message ANY individual babe if a guy wants?  And when I bring up the site on my cell, it is way lame.  Most of the screen is a black background with a few confusing icons on it, and a tiny pic of babes below that.