male (48) from San Diego, California looking for female, couple.
Icebreaker helps with contacting the new members that I'm interested in.
Ranting
Sometimes I think that there is something wrong with myself because all I seem to focus on is getting laid but then I see all the sex crazed people on here and I feel okay. So, thank you for sharing yourselves with everyone and accepting your sexual,desires. I feel that it is our natural traits as humans to procreate and explore the sensations of pleasure everyday. Life is to short to worry about what others think of us, I say those that judge us are jealous because they can't express their sexual desires as we have. What a shame because there are so many sexy people in the world that need to relax and instead of creating hostility, they should create a place of sexual pleasure. Just my 2 cents but probably only worth 1 cent......lol :p
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sorryimanerd: I cannot agree more with this! I find the people (who aren't spam bots or fake accounts, sadly there are a LOT of those) on adult websites (not just this one) are so welcoming of others. It's great. But on the other side, there are people who are just down right mean to others just because they didn't get what they wanted or something. At the end of the day users; the person on the other computer is in fact also human! please be kind!
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Wantsbooty: Exactly! I appreciate the comment. I agree with what you said that there are people who are selective. I think they still have insecurities and are somewhat afraid that they might deviate from the norm. Good looking has to be with good looking. It's true to some extent that it's not just about looks but there needs to attraction and the desire to be with that person other wise there seems to be no meaning behind it other than just another habitual fix that society has become used to satisfying. Like porn it's a fix but doesn't satisfy the ultimate reason we need actual human interaction. We can have many things in common with like minded folks but without the attraction from the opposite person it's a waste of time for both to even engage in such a thing. I also, think it creates disappointment and possibly regrets. Agree or not you know you have your own limits. I know I do. I also like to mingle with everyone but they don't all want to mingle with me and that's alright because why
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Wantsbooty: Should I waste my time worrying about that one person out of thousands or just hundreds?
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