My first of the site ....
Got a message from a young 20-something. I had not been on-site more than about an hour yet. I originally thought it was a pro or a spammer looking to get me…
male (54) from Wilmington, North Carolina 
looking for female.
I don't use Icebreaker to connect with people.
Icebreaker helps with contacting the new members that I'm interested in.