No one in my regular life would ever guess I'm on this site. I'm a very private person, so discretion is everything to me, but that doesn't mean I don't like having fun. Really this is so not like me to actually be on this site. There are plenty of people I can "hook up with" , I'm not opposed to that, but that's not what I found myself here for. I believe that attraction is very important. There is more involved than just physical attraction. But, lets be honest, that's usually where it begins. I’m constantly striving to know myself and to grow especially stronger mentally and physically. I particularly like people who are in touch with themselves or who want to move in that direction. If you subscribe to labels, I'm an alpha type looking for confident male.