She stands in the kitchen,

surrounded by desserts that look just

as delectable as she does.

Her red and black sexy lingerie hugs

her sensuous curves,

showing off her full figure.

While she prepares her next batch

of goodies, she can't resist licking

the spoon, running her tongue

through the white frosting.

As she sneaks a treat or two while

baking, some of the tasty morsels

falling onto her breasts,

she receives a text message from her

beau. He's on his way home,

and boy is he in for a sweet surprise!

She puts aside cupcakes for him

but when her lover

comes home, it's clear that he's only

hungry for her!

He starts by cupping her breasts,

licking and sucking on them,

but that's not enough

he wants more. After she is hoisted

onto the counter,

he runs his hands along her shapely

thighs to her pussy

drawing aside her lacy panties.

He leans down and eagerly eats her out, much to his voluptuous vixen's delight.

She makes sure to get a taste of him

too, as she gives him a deep blowjob,

getting him ready for the cherry on top. When she bends over the counter

and invites him inside, the desserts

lay forgotten, merely serving as a

colorful backdrop for their

passionate embrace

Conocerse uno al otro

La primera vez que estás con alguien

puede ser un poco difícil, ya que hace

falta tiempo para que se conozcan

el uno al otro.

Si estamos enamorados de esa

persona, buscamos sus puntos de

placer, hacer que se sienta cómodo e

intentar cuidar de esa persona.

Sin embargo, si sólo tenemos sexo

buscamos nuestro propio placer.

Amigos con derechos

Cuando estamos en una relación de

amigos con derecho, la delgada línea

que separa al placer del amor es

complicada.

¿En qué momento querer a alguien

como amigo, además de atraerte

físicamente y tener sexo juntos

no te hace pensar que las cosas

pueden ir a más?

Es muy difícil mantener una relación

puramente sexual a largo plazo.

Juego previo

Muchas veces, el juego previo suele

escasear a la hora de tener sexo.

También es cierto que el juego

previo no solamente es algo sexual,

sino que va desde el momento en

que dos personas tienen química,

se enamoran, buscan tiempo para estar juntos.

Así que el juego previo puede ser

una buena diferencia entre tener

sexo o hacer el amor.

Orgasmos

Si bien los orgasmos no son pura y

exclusivamente parte de hacer el

amor, la confianza y el cariño

en el otro es una parte importante

para conseguirlo, para lograr

dejarse llevar por los instintos.

El sexo es una liberación

A veces, las personas no sólo tienen

sexo por amor, sino como una

forma de liberación de muchas

cosas -por ejemplo, el estrés-.

Esa es una gran diferencia entre

tener sexo o hacer el amor:

a menudo tener sexo es

simplemente un acto más

egoísta en el que buscas

tu propio placer.

Tiempo

Muchas veces, cuando tenemos

sexo buscamos hacerlo

rápidamente y conseguir nuestro

objetivo. En cambio, cuando

hacemos el amor queremos

que el placer dure lo máximo

posible, por lo que se convierte

en un acto de sensualidad más

que de sexualidad.

How prepared couples are to share

their sexual interests varies a great

deal.

The use of erotica and pornography is an issue which provokes great

controversy.

Some people have ethical or moral

objections to pornography, objections to some types of pornography or only find it acceptable when associated

with couple arousal.

Nevertheless, it is now so widespread and available that, for some

individuals,

its use has become as routine as a

nightcap in providing a way to relax

and unwind.

An orgasm stabilises the body,

returning it to a calm state.

It is understandable, then,

to use sex to relax at times when you are jangling with stress.

Internet porn can provide a quick and easy way to help you achieve that.

Unfortunately, however, it can become a problem if it starts to be the

only way you can become aroused or deal with stress, or if you feel you will be stressed if you don’t use it.

Relate counsellors are increasingly

seeing problems with relationships

and sexual functioning that are

associated with the use of

internet porn.

This isn’t about having a healthy

sexual appetite or multiple partners

but about a compulsion to

keep returning to the activity

which is causing them problems.

This can happen surprisingly quickly, because internet use can

actually change the brain.

Masturbation is a sexual secret which isn’t really a secret at all.

Whether or not they acknowledge or

talk about it, partners often assume the other sometimes masturbates.

However, masturbation can be denied or compulsively hidden if one or both

partners feel it is some sort of betrayal. Or they may worry that there is

something wrong if their partner

masturbates, believing that they should only be fulfilled by sex with each other.

The difference between masturbation

and partner sex, however,

is like the difference between a

snack and a banquet.

Masturbation may be comforting or

help you to relax,

or it may deal with intense moments of arousal;

what it doesn’t usually do is provide the sense of occasion,

connection or achievement which may

be associated with lovemaking.

A negative attitude towards

masturbation sometimes develops

when someone has been in trouble for

touching themselves as …

actively told that it is wrong or

damaging.

However, even when they have no

memories at all associated with

masturbation or self-touch,

many people still feel guilty about it.

Fortunately, improved sex education

should convince future generations

that masturbation is a natural way to

experiment and learn about your body

in ways that can also be very helpful

to partners.

As an occasional or daily practice,

it can be relaxing and can cause no

harm to yourself or anyone else.

Some couples masturbate together;

this can be both arousing and help

you show each other how you enjoy

being touched.