I suppose once I am comfortable with a partner, I am quite uninhibited sexually and willing to do almost anything at least once with my partner that both of us are comfortable with. I prefer more sexually enlightened women and am not your usual type of controlling, insecure male. I'm open to non-monogamous relationships (which most men can't handle) not because I like to screw around, but because I have learned to let go of my jealousy and insecurities... labels don't keep people around anyhow, if they really want to cheat. And let's face it--statistically, women do it just as much as men do! I'm quite content in monogamous relationships as well. But i have to admit that there is a nagging part of my brain that wonders if we humans are really wired to be monogamous! For me, non-monogamous relationships only work with a lot of trust, honesty, and openness, even still.

I've tried a few other online dating sites.. and to be honest, I just connect better with people who are different, especially really comfortable and open about their sexual needs. That certainly isn't all I'm looking for... but it makes for a decent foundation.

I am looking for a new friend/or casual acquaintance. I am open to having a more serious, long term relationship, but not trying to get too serious too fast. I have been focused on my education and career and neglecting my needs for affection for far too long. I relocated back to Cleveland 4 years ago, though i was born here and lived here until I was 12. from 12-36 years of age, I lived in Florida in various parts, but mostly in the Tampabay area. Most of my family lives in the Cleveland area, so I relocated back to be closer to them. I miss Florida and having a real social circle.

I will add more to this later... gotta run for now.