816Realist's Blog

There are many dress codes to the real world. There is the dress to impress dress code when comes to clubs, dates, and job interviews. Then there is the dress code of neighborhoods of color. There is one dress code that people are not considering and that is the realism dress code. This code can make or break you and the gender gap. What I learned about women over the years is that they got a built in radar that can tell them who real and who is phony. Like the old saying goes game recognize game. I am not trying to be a hater but when comes to this stuff, I do crush a lot. Fellas, you may pass the dress to impress dress code but now you got 2.3 to 3 seconds to make the first impression or it is game over. So choose your words wisely and come correct or the woman will put you in check. Just be yourself and keeping it real. You don't always have to keep it gangster because females can and will call you a wankster if you don't come correct. Tupac shakur said it best,"thug life y'all know the rules. Do what you got to do and stay true." If you remember this, women have a better sense to take you seriously than some punk off the streets who don't know how the game goes. Know what you with confidence but be realistic. Women know what they want and they know how to achieve it. Fellas we need to get our head out of our asses and stop with the false bravado and just keep it real and be true to ourselves. Women will respect you more if you. Word is bond. K Real